Saying “Thank You” and “Goodbye”
BRIGHT HORIZON HOSPICE – SAYING “THANK YOU” AND “GOODBYE”
(name),
Thank you for all you have given me, your family, friends and the world. You have impacted my life with your love, your caring and your wisdom. Now that you are gone, I will carry all your love and everything I learned from you within me. The essence of who you were as a person will live within me. The essence of who you were as a person will live within me and within others. You will continue to give to the world as we pass on to others what we learned from you. I will miss you, but will have joy in remembering all you meant to me. Each thing you touched will bring you to mind. Your laugh, your smile, your words will resound in my mind and heart. Goodbye, dear one. — Helen Meier, Hope Hospice, Dublin, CA
Christian
Let not your hearts be troubled: believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also. — John 14: 1-3
Jewish
We rejoice over a birth and mourn over a death. But we should not. For when a man is born, who knows what he will do or how he will end? But when a man dies, we may rejoice — if left a good name and this world in peace. — Jewish Midrash, Ecclesiastes Rabbah 7:1 (4)
Buddhist
Light without equal, so pure; Beauty without peer, so serene; We desire to be reborn with you. Power without limits, so strong; Glory without end, so majestic; We desire to be reborn with you.
Muslim
Know, beloved, that we cannot understand the future world until we know what death is; and we cannot know what death is until we know what life is; nor can we understand what life is until we know what the spirit is — the seat of the knowledge of God. — Al-Ghazali (1058-1111),
Muslim medieval mystic
Native American
As I walk, The universe is walking with me In beauty it walks before me In beauty it walks behind me In beauty it walks below me In beauty it walks above me Beauty is on every side As I walk, I walk with beauty — Traditional Navajo Prayer
Hindu
Never fear that old age will invade that city; never fear that this inner treasure of all reality will wither and decay. This knows no age when the body ages; this knows no dying when the body dies. This is the real city of Brahman; this is the Self, free from old age, from death and grief, hunger and thirst. In the Self all desires are fulfilled. — Chandogya Upanishad